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Exhortation2026 letter 5

The Faith We Inherit and the Faith We Choose

Dt 6:6 / Deut 6:6, 2 Ti 1:5 / 2 Tim 1:5

« God has no grandchildren. He only has children. »

Dear brother, dear sister, There is a faith we receive without having sought it. A faith that dwells in the walls of our childhood. That echoes in a parent's prayers. That slips into the hymns of Sunday. That shapes our earliest images of God. Perhaps you grew up in a believing home. Perhaps you learned early to fold your hands, to recite verses, to hear of Jesus as someone close. This inherited faith is a gift. A seed sown before we even understood. But there comes a day — sometimes quiet, sometimes overwhelming — when this faith must become personal. No longer merely the faith of our parents. No longer merely the faith of our community. But our own. There is a delicate passage between what we receive and what we choose. Moses already knew this. He tells the people: *"These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts."* (Deuteronomy 6:6). Not only on tablets. Not only in memory. On your hearts. That is: internalised, living, personal. And centuries later, Paul speaks to Timothy of a "sincere" faith that first lived in his grandmother Lois and his mother Eunice. A transmitted faith. But Paul adds: *"and which, I am persuaded, lives in you also."* (2 Timothy 1:5) The transmission was not automatic. It had become interior. The central biblical truth is simple: **God has no grandchildren. He only has children.** You can inherit a Christian environment. You can inherit a biblical culture. But you cannot inherit a living relationship. At some point, faith becomes a choice. Not necessarily a spectacular choice. Not always a dramatic conversion. Sometimes it is a slow and deep decision: "Lord, I want You for myself. Not only because I was taught to follow You. But because I recognise You." This passage can be unsettling. As we grow, we sometimes question certain things. We discover our own doubts. We face our own battles. And what was obvious in childhood becomes questioned. This is not necessarily a departure. It may be a maturing. In John 1:12, it is written: *"To all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God."* Receive. Believe. Become. There is a personal action. Chosen faith is more fragile at first. It no longer has the comfort of habit. It must take root on its own. But it also becomes stronger, because it passes through the test. Perhaps you find yourself at this crossroads. Perhaps you realise that you know many things about God... but you thirst to know Him. Perhaps you want your prayer to no longer be merely a learned ritual, but a real encounter. There is no shame in that. It is a natural stage in the spiritual life. I invite you to read Deuteronomy 6:6 slowly, then 2 Timothy 1:5. Simply ask the Lord to make your faith living, personal, rooted. Speak to Him in your own words. Even simple ones. Even hesitant ones. Chosen faith does not despise the inheritance. It fulfils it. It transforms a tradition into a relationship. It carries the light passed down from generation to generation... right into your own heart. The audiobook we have prepared for this week accompanies precisely this inner transition. It gently explores how to move from a received faith to an owned, conscious, living faith. Not by rejecting what we have received, but by allowing it to become personal and incarnate. Consider it a brotherly guide for those who desire that their faith be no longer merely inherited... but inhabited. Brother, sister, God invites you not to repeat a story, but to enter your own with Him. He does not ask you to reproduce another's faith. He calls you by name. And when faith becomes a choice, it also becomes a joy. In this week's newsletter, we will go deeper into this reflection on personal faith and the beauty of a chosen relationship with Christ.

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Deuteronomy 6:6 2 Timothy 1:5